A couple go on vacation together. They are strolling along the beach when a sexy young woman who could easily be Miss Hawaiian Tropic comes strutting by in her tiny, sparkly bikini. Man cant assistance but notice this perfect human specimen, as does his significant other who witnesses her men head turning as Hawaiian Tropic passes by. Instantaneously, her blood simmers as she prepares to berated him for his indecency.
Many girls have the tendency to become upset or even irate when they catch their significant other checking out other attractive girls. They will often react with jealousy and aggression, leaving the guy with not a clue on how to fix the situation or how to pacify her down.
Its merely a thing they do. All of them, and there is scientific evidence that supports that they cant genuinely used to help. It should be common sense by now that humen are visually stimulated. The types of women that will appeal to them will vary, but generally they will meet certain criteria: Facial symmetry, a certain waist to hip ratio, good scalp and hair, slender, and fit. When humen consider an image that meets these standards, chemicals are released in the brain that obligates their eyes to linger a little bit longer than they would for another man that passes by, for instance.
It doesnt matter what his marital status is either. If he watches an attractive woman, he will immediately take note of her beauty. Just because a guy is marriage or in a relationship doesnt mean that other women stop being hot. You know this too dames when it comes to other humen that you encounter. You watch a guy while shopping and you think, Damn, hes hot! You might even say that to your girl friends and you all then proceed to admire his appearance. You either let your eyes linger or you try to get a couple more quick peeks at him before he awkwardly catches you looking at him. When this happens, you know its not a threat to your relationship with your boyfriend. You know you arent going to be unfaithful to him merely because you find a guy at the store that you find sexy in some manner or another. You should know first hand that theres no need to throw a big hissy-fit when you see your guy momentarily confused by the cute waitress that is serving your table.
Another thing, is this: The fact that he sometimes looks at other women does not mean that he doesnt also think you are beautiful. It does not mean he plans to be unfaithful. It also does not mean that he doesnt love you. It only means that he saw a woman that he found physically attractive. Thats it. He thinks you are gorgeous. He loves you, and hes with you for a reason, and he wishes that you understood that.
For example, a glance at a good appearing female is natural and virtually unavoidable. However if he is visibly ogling her and boldly not trying to hide it, even with you standing right there with him while hes doing it, thats disrespectful to both you and her, because it has become deliberate and inconsiderate. This would be a good time to tactfully call him out, especially if you know he wouldnt like the same behavior out of you. Theres a difference between noticing an attractive woman and when he is going out of his route to make it known to the world that hed like to hit it.
Stay tuned for a second component on this topic. I want to go further into discussing reactions and attitude to catching your guy checking out other women, and what say and do when hes traversed the line.