7 Tips For The Guy Who’s Meeting His Girlfriend’s Dad For The First Day

23 days ago

Theres no part of a relationship scarier for a human than gratifying his daughters parents.

Of course, the pressure he feels will vary from relationship to relationship. But if impressing the mothers is essential to stimulating the relationship work — and it is — then it’s always going to be a stressful experience.

But this is a good thing. Its good that you care enough about her to be stressed about meeting her parents.

The trick, though, is not to appear too emphasized. With the holidays only around the corner, theres a good chance that many of you reading this are going to be meeting the family for the first time.

So I thought it may be a good idea to give some of the men out there a few pointers for when it comes to meeting Papa Bear. Its his “girls ” that youve been sleeping with, after all.

Here are seven tips that will hopefully make this upcoming holiday season a delightful one.

1. Dress to impress.

You may not be a gentleman, but play the part. Every dad wants to know that the man his daughter is dating is one whos respectful both to his daughter and to his elders. And one thing that demonstrates a sign of respect is your self-presentation.

Put in the extra is high time to get that haircut, shave and press your shirt. Attain it seem like you actually prepared for session her mothers because thats exactly what her parents want to see. They want to see their daughter found a son who cares enough about her to want to impress her parents.


2. Bring a gift.

Whether or not her parents are usedto receivinggifts for theseoccasions doesnt genuinely matter. If they are, then it’s good you brought something. If they arent, then you’ve outperformed their expectations.

Just be careful with what you bring. Do your research. You may not wishes to bringing a bottle of whiskey because that may give the wrong impression. However, if her daddy is a whiskey human, receiving only the right bottle may open the doors for some male bonding.


3. Avoid too much physical contact with your girlfriend.

Its no secret that youve been sleeping together( Well, hopefully its not a secret — and if it is, hopefully your girl will let you know ahead of day ). But that doesnt mean her fatherwants to see you putting your hands all over her. There is such a thing as too much PDA — especially when hanging out with her family.

At the same time, her father does want you to show some affection for his daughter because, well, she’s his daughter. He wants her to have a boyfriend whocares about her and is affectionate toward her.

Youre going to have to strikethe right balance. Start slow with some hand-holding and gauge her parents’reaction.


4. Be polite and respectful of their beliefs and opinions.

You may all agree on everything under the sun and moon. It happens. But the exact opposite may happen, too.

What you dont wishes to do is start an debate in whichyou try to prove that her parents are wrong.

No one likes to be proven incorrect. If you try to prove her parents incorrect, opportunities are youll annoy them rather than convince them.

However, depending on the man her father is, you may want to show him that you do have a backbone — that you do have notions. You may notrespect his, but you won’t stray from yours.


5. Find something in common.

There is always common ground to be found. You may like the same athletics — maybe even the same teams. You may enjoy similar movies, music or wine. You can always find common ground if you try hard enough.

If worse comes to worst, youcan both agree on the factthat his daughter is a wonderful daughter. If all else fails, talk about how amazing she is and how lucky you are to have found her.


6. Get on Mom’s good side.

Lets be honest: Chances are that the mama is the head of the decision-making committee. If all else fails, impress your girlfriend’smother; her papa will eventually give in.

Of course, this isnt always the case — sometimes “the mens” actually does wear the pants in the relationship — but it’s oftenthe mommy who makes all the final decisions.

If you can manage to impress the mother and get her to see you as a nice and respectable guy, then the chances are higher that her father will put up with you. Andsometimesthats all you can ask.

And if impressing the mother doesnt work, just work on proving that all the parents fears are unwarranted. Hell come around.


7. Don’t stress. But also…stress.

You dont want to be so stressed to the point that you start acting out of character. But at the same time, if youre too calm, her mothers may see that as absence of interest.

We stress about the things in our lives that mean the most to us. So its okay if youre stressed out a little. Its okay to be nervous. In fact, this may be to your benefit. Just dont have a complete breakdown.


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