This Is The Most Important Thing You’ll Learn If You Go To College2 months, 23 days ago
Like any other senior on the verge of graduation, the past couple of months have been filled with reflection and appreciation.
As I prepare to takethe last final exam of my college career, its impossible not to experience that whirlwind of emotions one can only describe asbittersweet.
Ive been lucky enough to receive a post-secondary education, an education that has now made opportunities to start my dream job, and have met so many people whohave inspired me in ways they probably dont even realize.
Its that last piece I believe is likely to be the most important experience university has provided me with.
Yes, university let me to receive a higher education, but it also let me to develop an open mind, and, quite frankly, this skill of diversity is what I think will be more beneficial in the long run.
I grew up in asmall suburban township and predictability was the epitome of my childhood. I wasraised to marriage person withinmyculture, nationality and religion. Of course, I wasthen supposed to goon to breed more disciples( or victims as I refer to them) of this suburban plague.
Everyone was the same, so it was inevitable that we all grew up living in this fictitious bubble of small town safety and normality.
It wasnt until university that I met people who were of different religions, nationalities and sexual orientations. And thats the most important thing I learned in college: culture. That its diverse and thats its beauty.
I wont takewalking through the student centre and passing a new group of students standing up for something they believe in for granted. They subtly educated us on the world outside our classroom walls.
To these students whowere constantly standing up for their beliefs and what they were passionate about, thank you. Im sure every school has its own version of this social justice demo, and I feel as though these students are the schools beating heart.
Thank you for not letting us, the college student body, turn a blind eye and ignore whats happening in the world simply because weve been privileged enough to be engulfed by our own stresses of midterms and internship recruitment.
University me with diversity. I was created Catholic and attended a Catholic school my whole life.Unfortunately, I couldnt tell you a single thing about Judaism until I met a Jewish girl living in my residency in my first year.
I cant even put into words what I have learned about other religions simply from interacting with my friends and classmates; to me, that knowledge is greater than any accounting quiz I took.
I have an appreciation for their religions and understand their normal is different from mine.And as someone who prides herselfon being culturally intelligent, I would hate to offend person because of my culture ignorance. Thanks to university, that ignorance has dissolved.
I understand that these lessons on culture are very dependent on the individual.
There are definitely students whohave carried their high school norms into university, staying with the same friend group and not reaching out and meeting new people. Some post-secondary institutions are also just not as diverse; perhaps your school was specific to a certain religion, or perhaps the demographic that was attracted by that schools recruitment efforts was narrow in scope.
Regardless of the situation, I believe that in todays society, cultural intelligence is the new normal.Its becoming the expectation.
Technology has eradicated the but I didnt know excuse.Learning about whatsgoing on in the world, politically and/ or socially, is easier than it has ever been before. So if cultural intelligence is something your college degree wasnt able to, or hasnt provided to you, Im sorry from the bottom of my heart.
Those diverse relationships were some of the more powerful ones I constructed in university. But to be even more franks: Not graduating with the sense of diversity is basically like graduating one credit shorter than the rest of the world.
Originally written by Alex Duffield on Unwritten.